Happy summer and happy Pride Month! Ever since the modern pride movement’s deep roots formed in June of 1969, this month has been host to events celebrating the LGBTQIA community, including festivals, shows, parades, and so much more. In 1999, Bill Clinton became the first president to federally declare the month of June as LGBT Pride Month, followed by Barack Obama, who did so every year during his entire term in office. While the official recognition of this time is fairly new, the people it celebrates are not. Gay, lesbian, queer, and transgender people have long been important members in our communities, serving in roles as educators, civil servants, business owners, and so much more. This month is dedicated to recognizing their contributions to the world, as well as pushing for widespread recognition, education, and acceptance.
The reason that pride month is set in June is in remembrance of the Stonewall Riots, a series of public riots that took place over about a week of time in New York during June of 1969. Their name comes from the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in Greenwich Village, Manhattan, which was raided in the early hours of June 28, 1969 by police. The resulting unrest was a wake-up call to the public as well as a major turning point in the gay pride movement, defining much of its progress into modern times. Even today, we remember the legacy of the people who stood up for gay rights in that moment, carrying on their fight for equality and acceptance.
The story goes that the Stonewall Inn, as well as most other gay bars in New York at the time, was owned and run by the Mafia, since by state and federal law it was effectively illegal to be gay. However, seeing as there was money to be made, the Mafia stepped in and opened many gay bars across the city, illegally selling alcohol to patrons and bribing police officers to warn them of planned raids.
The raid on Stonewall Inn was different, however, because the owners and patrons of Stonewall Inn had not been warned beforehand that police were coming. When law enforcement arrived early in the morning on June 28, there was still alcohol on the premises. Immediately, police began arresting patrons and employees for bootlegging and wearing non “gender appropriate” clothing, which was prohibited by state law. However, instead of dispersing like usual, the crowds began to grow around the bar. As people became more and more upset, yelling things at the police, the police officers began to push back, restraining and arresting members of the crowd.
As one woman was notably resisting arrest, the upset crowd watched and began throwing whatever they could get a hold of at the police officers. Things soon escalated into a full-blown riot, in which the police were backed into the bar with the crowd outside, drawing even more people to the scene. This arrangement didn’t last for long, and further police presence cleared out the demonstrators quickly afterwards.
Following the events of the first night, demonstrations cooled down and remained peaceful, but for the next five days activists flocked to Christopher Street, the street where Stonewall Inn was located, marching and protesting for gay rights. In direct response to these events, organizations such as the Gay Liberation Front, Human Rights Campaign, and GLAAD (Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation) all formed, furthering the centralized fight for LGBTQ+ rights. The following year, 1970, a gay pride march remembering Stonewall was led in New York, which became a yearly tradition, continuing into today. The increased organization around the month of June continued to grow, and people started celebrating June as gay pride month, using the time to raise awareness for and educate people about the LGBTQIA community, carrying on the fight for acceptance and equality.
This Pride Month, we must all take the time to individually engage with, celebrate, and support the LGBTQ+ community, whether that is as a member or an ally. I myself am a cisgender heterosexual man, and I intend to take this month to educate myself on how to be a better ally, while intentionally listening to the people who are speaking out on how I can better support the movement. I am aware that I, as a straight man, am not in any place to speak on behalf of the LGBTQIA community, and that it would be ridiculous for me to try and tell you how to celebrate this month. So, for that reason, and for the purposes of this article, I decided to reach out to some of my friends who identify as part of the community and ask them what Pride Month meant to them. These were their responses:
“Pride Month to me means celebrating what my queer ancestors fought for. As a Hispanic, bisexual woman, I am able to proudly date or marry another woman because previous queer folks that share the same background as me decided that my right to love was roth fighting for. It’s a month to say thank you to the people who were attacked and discriminated against all for wanting queer love to prevail. It’s a month to celebrate and make sure that this queer love stays prevailing.”
“Pride Month, to me, means being your absolute authentic self with no regrets. It means allowing yourself to let go of the fears of the past, where we were shelled, hidden in a box and only displaying the side of us that people want to see. Pride is exemplary of being free of any constraints on your personality and letting your colors shine brighter than anything, and nothing can stop you… Let go of what you’re feeling and live in the moment. Just be you! Happy Pride <3”
“I can’t come out to my family. My mom would probably be ok with it (but not understand), my dad semi-regularly uses the word “f----t” or “f--” if he’s in a better mood, and [my brother] uses gay as an insult... My extended family would [hate me] for being bisexual. I feel like growing up in Texas has been a massive roadblock for me because even in the cities there’s still a ‘hide it don’t show it’ mentality for people in the community, and to me, Pride Month is about trying to change that. The best thing that can be done with pride month is to inform people: no, homosexuality is not the eighth deadly sin, it is not a disease that you can catch, and regardless of someone’s sexual orientation or gender they are still a human being and deserve the same rights as you.”
All of these responses mean a lot to me, and I just want to sincerely thank those who reached out to me for their honesty and vulnerability. These beautifully highlight that this month can be a month of education, activism, and celebrating Pride in yourself and your community. I appreciate the time and thought that went into these, and encourage others who want to share their experiences with or opinions on Pride Month to do so!
Here's where all of this ties into our purpose of education at Oakwood. This month is a great month to engage in, or continue engaging in self-education. Learning is not something that is exclusive to classrooms, and education isn’t some currency that only school teachers can hand out. You have the ability and responsibility to find and utilize resources to learn things on your own! No school necessary. Self-education is a beautiful tool that you can use to better yourself and your community by taking it upon yourself to learn about an important topic.
The fact is that in schools, many things are not taught, or are taught unequally, and social justice is one of those topics. For this reason, this is a good month to engage in research and understanding of the LGBTQ+ community. In my experience, with every topic, there is always more to learn, so whether you’re a member or an ally, Pride Month is the time to engage in learning how to be a better advocate for gay peoples’ rights. You can start with learning about political developments, social movements or even just Pride in general. In fact, you’ve already started by making it this far into the article and reading about Stonewall and the origins of the modern Pride movement! I encourage you to keep that momentum going this month and into the future, and make the conscious choice to learn about things that are important. It will make you a better person, and your community a better place.
Sources:
Grinberg, Emanuella. “How the Stonewall Riots Inspired Today's Pride Celebrations.” CNN, 28 June 2019,
www.cnn.com/2019/06/28/us/1969-stonewall-riots-history/index.html.
History.com Editors. “Stonewall Riots.” History.com, A&E Television Networks, 31 May 2017, www.history.com/topics/gay-rights/the-stonewall-riots.
“About : Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer Pride Month : Library of Congress.”
The Library of Congress, The Library of Congress, www.loc.gov/lgbt-pride-month/about/.
by Tim Lowery